Day 1395 | Motherhood

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These little nuggets made me a mom just over six years ago. I'm not going into all the gifts these boys have given me or all the sacrifices I (and all moms!) have made. Let me just say that hearing them call me Momma is all I need. 

A friend posted this earlier today and I think it's really beautiful. Here's to all of us, "holding the universe together."

She wasn't doing a thing that I could see, 
except standing there, leaning on the balcony railing, 
holding the universe together.
 
                                                            -J.D. Salinger

Day 1390 | Dance Competitions

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My nieces have been participating in dance competitions forever. It’s been a huge part of their life forever. I’ll be honest that I haven’t always seen the appeal. The make up is a little intense. The costumes sometimes reveal a little too much. The moves are sometimes a little too sultry. Turns out I’m kind of protective when it comes to these young ladies.  

Year later and many competitions under my belt, I get it. It’s not about the costumes or the make up (although they can actually be pretty sweet). It’s about working your tail off and dedicating yourself to something for so long that it becomes instinct. It’s about the friends you meet and the closeness you feel to each other from all the practices and late nights at competition together. It’s about a whole family affair (my brother and sister in law each have their roles at the competition, too), which doesn’t really exist these days. It’s about dealing with the successes and the failures on a constant basis and learning how to keep going when things don’t go your way. 

I’m glad my girls found dance. I still think they are the most beautiful versions of themselves without the makeup and hair and fancy costumes, but I’ve come to appreciate  the dance competition version of them more than I ever thought I would. 

Congratulations on another great competition, ladies. I’m proud of you. 

Day 1387 | Clean Up Duty

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I’d like to say I was just motivated by the nice weather to remove car seats and vacuum the van. Nope, as you can probably guess, car seat out + cover off = someone got sick. The little one to be specific. I’m lucky the mess was contained to clothing and car seat (and not the rest of the car’s upholstery), but what a mess. Bleh. 

And it turns out it wasn’t a one-time incident. So far it’s been a four-time incident but the rest have been much less of a production. Poor little guy. He was so agitated last night and so uncomfortable that I offered to sleep in one of the guest beds with him. When he said he only wanted me to sleep in his bed (a twin), of course that’s what I did. I mean, I knew I was going to be on high alert listening for any squeak while sleeping away from him, anyway.

As little sleep as I got (but I did get punched in the face once!) and as exhausted as I was today, it was totally the right decision. It speaks to the power of a mother’s presence that just having me “sleep” next to him last night made him feel calm and comforted enough to get the little sleep he could get. My job is really hard. And pretty gross sometimes. But it’s also the best. 

p.s. Don’t judge me for how crazy dirty the van is. Just a constant reminder that winter is still holding on.  

Day 1386 | A Police Birthday Party

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The Basic Stats of Our Perfect Police Party

  • 2 of the happiest birthday boys ever
  • 18 little officers in training
  • 42 total attendees
  • 1 mystery involving 4 villains
  • 35 donuts eaten (some off of a string)
  • 1 bouncy house

There were a lot of photos. A lot. It took everything I had to narrow them down, but here you go...

Day 1385 | Quilting

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Today was day four of me going into Chase’s class to help with their quilting unit. I help two kids at a time pick out, cut, pin, and iron fabric of their choosing until they end up with a quilt square like the one Chase is holding up. It’s been fun to be in the classroom—really fun. But man, teaching kids is exhausting. I have more appreciation than ever for those that chose teaching as a profession.  

Day 1384 | Goodbye Birthday Season

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We hosted one heck of a police birthday party today. I need to weed through 200+ photos and then I'll be happy to share some of the highlights. For now, I think this one photo sums up the emotion of the party pretty well.

As we cleaned up today's party we said farewell to the 2018 birthday season. It started in the beginning of February so we're all a bit birthday'ed out. It was a fun ride, though.

Thank you to all the friends + family that joined us today. We had a blast planning it and hope you had as much fun attending.

Day 1379 | Dining Al Fresco

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Man, the last few days have been a total dream. The sun has been shining, the animals are reemerging (as well as the people in our neighborhood), and we’ve been outside enjoying every second of it. 

Today my parents were sweet enough to come over and help with some yard work (and we’re beyond grateful!) and we ate outside for the first time this year. This. This is what makes the winter [somewhat] bearable—these first spring days that bring a sense of total appreciation and happiness for surviving the winter. 

Day 1378 | Playmobil

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I’ve been talking to a lot of friends about Playmobil toys lately. I feel like it’s a great quality toy line with a wide variety of interests covered but totally flies under the radar.  

It has not flown under the radar for us. We are single handedly keeping Playmobil afloat. Ok, not really, but it feels like that.  

And one of the boys’ favorite parts of Playmobil is the mini catalogues that come with each set and the full-size catalogue (pictured above) which they browse for hours. No joke. Hours. We have the 2016, 2017, and 2018 catalogues in rotation these days and we discovered a 2007 mini catalogue at Goodwill earlier this week (with a whole new assortment of toys to peruse). I know it’s consumerism at its finest but it makes them so so happy, which brings me more than a little bit of joy, too. Win-win!